Semen Tree

I skate to work,
You smell like cum.
I skate back home,
You smell like cum.
I am lost
And confused
And hungover
And bleeding
And still,
You smell like cum.

You know you’re an alcoholic when you drink two *entire* pitchers of Arrogant Bastard to your face and still function for the night. Also, I drink alone. Often.

Currently re-evaluating my life choices.


You know, sometimes I’ll see a post that says “boys suck”, or something to that effect, immediately followed by a hoard of girls and sometimes even guys hopping on the “stupid boys” bandwagon.

Trust me, I get it: you’re frustrated because you feel like your love-life is being ruined by a series of immature boys who may, in fact, all completely and thoroughly suck. But for anyone to make such sweeping, insulting generalizations about an entire gender just pisses me off. Sexism works both ways and I will always call you on it regardless of what you have in your fucking pants.

To the person who triggered this frustration in me today: What seems to universally suck here is not every human being with a dick so much as your ability to judge character. Please fuck off, and take your trashy sexist bullshit with you.

Plagued by blessings. First world problems, first world depression. Where is the rewind button? Please, just one more day with her.

I suppose it’s been a while since I said much. Even in past posts, of my travels and whatnot, I haven’t spilled much emotion.. or it feels like I haven’t anyway.

The point is that I feel a lot of things I haven’t been able to express well lately, or even fully understand at times. I feel as though I need to establish more structure in my life, but think I’m intimidated by structure. Could it be that I feel as though it is structured people I’ve relied upon to get me by without putting much effort into life, and I simply fear being discovered?

Or am I afraid of success? Is it possible I fail intentionally and act randomly in order to prevent others from building hopes or expectations of me?

And how can I more specifically define what kind of structure I mean.. Working more hours? Going back to school? Do I really want either of those? I will need to work more in order to afford and secure my own living space (Which I’ve been without for a year and some change now). I really want my own space so I think I’ll have to work more. Fortunately I have a job where I can choose hours from nearly any day I want as I need them.

But that takes me back to the money thing.. money to me is a sign of structure. If the person who has it isn’t structured, someone close to them is. I like money when I have it but hate it when I don’t. But I guess nearly everyone does..

I have sometimes felt that when I don’t work as hard, I I tend to not play as hard in my own free time. It seems that I somehow feel a higher sense of value towards the time I have off when large chunks of time are being stolen from me by work. I become less creative and less sharp. So is the lack of difficulty worth the easier ride? Is the ride really that easy? How can I remind myself of this constantly, to push myself to face challenges without fear or hesitation? Where will I find the strength to choose what it means to fully live? What will my choice be? Will I find the courage and drive to pursue it?

I don’t want to still be feeling this way. I want to change, I need to change, but I can’t let go. I can’t let go and it’s making me crazy and ruining my chances to find something new. I have something new and it’s getting all fucked up because I can’t let go of what I had. I feel so fucking doomed.

The American Dream™ Is Dead.

The American Dream™ is dead.
It limped off to the bowling alley 
down the street
before the building was demolished.

It bled to death at lane 7,
in an uncomfortable plastic seat.

The pins nearby melted away
as balding men and old women in gloves 
rolled heavy balls down waxed hallways.

The Dream™, coughing and wheezing,
saw tiny polished boulders
knocking the teeth from numbered skulls.

Its eyelids grew heavy.
Its hands went stiff and cold;
They would never grope for a hamburger again.

I’m sitting here in a dark room. My laptop is on a lazy susan. I am eating a burrito with a tiny fork. There is an oddly colored cat in my lap licking my shirt.

Just another Sunday.

A Few Thoughts On My Recent Past And Coming Future

I get so tired of this fucking life sometimes. I’m not going to end it, I know things will get better later, then get worse again. I know that the ups are worth the downs, but right now I’m feeling the opposite end of this spectrum. Right now I’m feeling that these downs are truly worthy of the ups that created them, which is saying something. It feels like those ups are so far away. I know that life is a yin-yang. It comes in giant waves of awfulness with little scattered bits of pleasure and happiness. Then life comes in waves of greatness and growth with little bits of the bullshit mixed in. I’ve just had a lot of change-ups, more so than I’m used to, in the last year. 

I’ve been put through all kinds of bizarre trials that I wouldn’t wish upon anyone, friend or otherwise. I’ve seen and felt and dealt with many disturbing things the bulk of which I don’t feel particularly comfortable or interested in mentioning here. Disturbing people, disturbing practices, and disturbing decisions which I had to make.

I also fell in love, slowly, without projections or illusion. I really felt comfortable in my own skin around an intimate partner. I felt I was finally ready to share my life with someone. I experienced such immense beauty, such groundbreaking earth shattering life changing excitement and warmth, that I wonder now if I will ever manage to feel that again. I felt I was growing tremendously strong from it, that we were growing together to become an unstoppable force. It was all I needed just to hear from her to feel like everything was going to be okay.

Yet it was ripped away suddenly and without warning. I recoiled in shock and horror and denial. I began smoking and drinking compulsively and heavily. I largely and rapidly regressed from the strong and happy person I was becoming to a bitter and frustrated person worse than I had been in years. Sometimes, still, on these lonely nights, I feel like the whole fucking thing was a grand illusion; some beautifully wretched drama crafted by a schizophrenic wizard, manipulating our minds and bodies like marionettes whose strings reach to the heavens.

Still, despite all this, despite all of it raining down on me in a foreign land where I had nothing and no one, I forced myself to push on and keep living. I pulled myself out of the hole, slowly, and started to truly enjoy life again. I put my love and my loss behind me and moved on. I practiced hard to develop a capacity to communicate in Spanish. I found wonderful places with wonderful people and had a hell of a time partying with them. I exposed myself to new cultures and new ways of thinking and living. I started building a new life for myself halfway across the world. Yet somehow, just as I had found myself on a new peak on a new mountain, after all that climbing, after starting to shape my own life how I wanted, life happened back.

That’s one thing I’ve learned from all of this; life will always happen back. You can make your own decisions, you can shape and craft and build your life however you see fit, but you will always have life happening back at you. You have to learn to roll with the punches and reshape your plans. In my case, I was practically forced to deport myself back home.

Now I’m back at square one. I’m alone, broke, and all I’ve got to show for the things I’ve been through are a handful of stories, and a hole in my gut where this all used to live. Sometime it all feels so unfair I want to just fall apart. Then again, sometimes there’s so damn much beauty and wonder and pleasure in my life that I simply can’t imagine being anyone else.

Life is like that. It’s an extreme balancing act and we’re all along for the ride. You can get off the ride anytime, but why do that? I’ll take pain over oblivion any day; pain isn’t permanent.

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Well, it ain't no use to sit and wonder why, babe.
And it ain't no use to sit and wonder why, babe,
If you don't know by now.
When the rooster crows at the break of dawn,
Look out your window and I'll be travelin' on.
You're the reason I'll be gone..
Don't think twice, 'cause it's alright.

Well it ain't no use in callin' out my name, gal..
Like before.
And it ain't no use in callin' out my name, gal..
I can't hear you anymore.
I wish there was somethin' you would do or say
To try and make me change my mind and stay,
But we never did too much talkin' anyway..
But don't think twice, 'cause it's alright.
Well it ain't no use in turnin' on your lights, babe..
Lights I never knowed.
And it ain't no use in burnin' your lamp, babe.;
I'm on the dark side of the road. Well, it's lonesome travelin' down the lonesome road; I once loved a woman, a child I'm told. I give her my heart but she wanted my soul.. But don't think twice, 'cause it's alright. So I'm ramblin' all by myself babe, This time, maybe more. And I can't use nobody else, babe.. Whatever you claimed before. I ain't sayin' you treated me unkind; You could have done better but I don't mind.. You just wasted my precious time, But don't think twice, 'cause it's alright.